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| My sister's wedding last year...I brought my extra chins that day I see! |
My relationship with my sister is one of my most treasured relationships that I have. She's my best friend, my confidant, the one who knows what I'm feeling by just the look on my face or the tone of my voice. Even though she has two kids and one more on the way she always makes time to hear me out when I need to vent. She might be slow at returning my emails and never answers her phone but I know that she'll always have something positive or uplifting to say. And she doesn't mind dog-sitting for me! I love her more than anything in the world and I sincerely believe the bond between sisters is one of the strongest and can never be broken. No matter what.
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| She'll kill me for posting this pic of her without makeup on but whatever, she's still cute. |
And then there's this shithead. I call him a shithead in the most loving way. My sis and I were absolute tortuous bitches to him while growing up, making him dress up in wigs and dresses and makeup and parading him around the house. He's the shy one of the group but I think that's because he grew up with two mouthy older sisters who never gave him a chance to talk. He may be on the quiet side but he has a heart of gold and would do anything for anyone in need. I moved into his house three years ago and took over, drenching everything in shades of red, making it look nothing like the bachelor pad it really was. Now I'm moving out and leaving him my rice cooker; that's all he wanted. (I told him he could have it since the Boyfriend doesn't eat rice. "who doesn't eat rice?" he asked. Ummm...rednecks?!)
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| He doesn't even look like the same kid, this is a super old pic. He has lost about 50 pounds and took his earring out. What a dork! :) |
The bottom line is you don't get to pick your family, you are stuck with who God gave you. And unless your siblings are murderous, child molesting, drug dealing thieves then there is absolutely no reason to not be able to get the fuck along with them. Of course there may be times when you don't agree with their choices in life and they might get on your last nerve but guess what? That's life. When you grow up and become an adult hopefully your parents equipped you with common sense, patience, manners, and empathy so that you are able to put your shit out on the table and talk about it. These aren't the people you want to be holding grudges against because they're the one's who will be by your side at the end of the day. I love my sister and brother with all my heart, nothing and nobody will ever come between us, no matter what horseshit life throws at us. We have all three vowed to always deal with it and then put it behind us. No grudges, no hard feelings, no lies, no backstabbing, no name-calling, and certainly no chosing sides. Because that's what people who love each other do. And I am blessed and honored to be able to call these two people my siblings; I couldn't ask for better shitheads in my life. I love you guys. XOXO
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| Holy Shitballs, their teeth are so terrifying!! |
P.S. Best news ever!! This morning a friend told me that she and her hubs will be getting Alpacas on their farm next spring!! I warned her that she might find me stalking around her barn in the middle of the night. Every night. For the rest of my LIFE!
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